So, we're spending some time down the shore with the extended family (total of 20 people spread among 3 rental houses) and are mostly having fun, but DH is doing that thing that he does where he INSISTS that he wants to "find out what Mom/Aunt B/Cousin M/BIL" is doing before he'll make a decision.

What he needs to do is make a plan, tell people that this is what he wants to do (host a cocktail party, BYO drinks/snacks; host a game night; take the kids up to the Boardwalk; whatever...) instead of texting his cousin or aunt or parents or brother and waiting for THEM to make an effing decision.

He spent all year talking about this vacation and now he's just doing his regular stuff. I don't understand.