How to help a friend - possible borderline personality disorder
This is a long shot, But I’m hoping one of my fellow researchers has information on this.
A friend of mine has called me in tears about her husband many times. He’s Sensitive and insecure and accuses her of doing weird things and has even made suicidal comments a few times. Also signs of controlling behavior and clinginess and finding fault with others. Oh and moodiness.. I suspected he could have depression or something, but This morning after another episode involving a social event relating to me, I started looking up borderline personality disorder and… I am no expert but it really looks like a classic case of this.
He clearly needs diagnosis and support. And my poor friend certainly needs support. She asked me for advice and I told her she should get help for herself first and possibly professional advice on how to proceed. I’m afraid I will give wrong advice, aside from the fact that he has to get therapy. There is no way he will accept that without a fight … There are cultural issues on top of everything else.
I was going to help her find a therapist for herself first and also maybe some online forums or something relating to this. Of course we don’t even have a diagnosis but I felt chills down my spine as I read the list of symptoms and saw the overlap with his behavior.
If anyone has experience with this or knows of any support groups, I would appreciate it. Thanks.
"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, "What? You, too? I thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis