So DH just left for a concert... An indoor concert at a huge venue! We are all vaccinated, but most of the household with the J&J vaccine... The venue is requiring proof of vaccination or proof of recent test AND masking (but we all know how much masking is usually followed at events). DH will stay masked.
I am not comfortable with this AT ALL!!! DH tried to "sell" his tickets, but was unable to do so and really wants to go to the concert. He is desperate for "normal", I am desperate to keep the family safe! He says "worst case scenario, I get sick". I say "worst case scenario one of us gets really sick/dies" and/or "DC miss many weeks of college/high school due to catching covid or exposure". He just rolls his eyes and tells me I am insane and the risk is low of even catching covid from the concert.
He and I are definitely not on the same page for risk. Half the family (including me) still wears mask everyone, including outside; goes few places; are very cautious. The other half (including DH) only wears a mask when required and will take risks like eating indoors in a restaurant.
I know he will not test in 5 days. We don't have the space for him to sleep in another room for a week, we just have to hope and pray!!! I keep telling myself that it is no more risk than flying or going out to eat, but it just feels more risky!
I HATE THIS!!! Pre-covid I would just tell him to have fun and move on for a fun evening with the kids!
How much longer are we going to have to live with every decision feeling like life or death?