This.
I can't articulate it but I can't help feeling like I hope the council sees what you did here and commends you for it. This was a near miss in what could have been quite a scandal/negative experience not only for the girls involved but also for the organization that already has a bit of a tarnish around it lately. And I'm a fan of the BSA. I'm on our troop's board and two of my boys are involved in scouts!
It is clear to me that more training is needed and maybe better safeguards to the processes that keep scouts safe. Thank goodness you spoke up but also thank goodness you were able to convince the girls. That takes moral courage and also competency.
Also, (hopefully I'm reading this incorrectly) it was men who were trying to convince girls to do something sexual to boys? That seems really off. I hope I'm just missing context. I just feel disappointed because I like that girls are in scouting now but this seems like such a corruption of what scouting should be for them. A setback in our quest to promote real equality and respect. And like Percycat said, totally in violation of the oath and law.