I just follow whatever directions the host leaves us. I’ve noticed that, over the years, expectations have decreased. Years ago, when we were renting houses on VBRO, we had to do a bit more of a cleanup but nowadays many times they have minimal instructions like take out the trash and load the dishwasher. Some places still ask us to put the dirty linens in the washing machine. We generally leave the place neat and straighten up cushions, clear countertops, etc., but we don’t actually clean unless we are told to do it. I have never scrubbed a toilet at an Airbnb!
"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, "What? You, too? I thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis