Music is a required special in the elementary grades - K-5. Starting in 6th, it becomes an elective. Students can choose band or chorus in middle schools as an elective. In most district non-magnet middle schools, students only choose one elective per semester since PE/health is required all year. Band runs all year so no other electives are possible for those students. It would be great if all students could have more exposure to music.
Our younger two choose between band and chorus/drama starting in 5th grade at their private school. DS is in 7th this year and has no music for the first time since he's not in band. DD chose the music/chorus/drama path so no instruments for us. She is learning to read music and will learn a simple song on the piano by the end of the year. As a mom who formally played the piano and violin until I left for college, it makes me slightly sad no one chose band but we let them all choose for themselves.
Mom to Two Wild and Crazy Boys and One Sweet Baby Girl