My libido is in the toilet. No, not the toilet; it’s in the sewer system.
I’m in my mid-40s, I have kids, I’ve been with my husband for 20+ years, and the pandemic has stressed me out in a major way. Clearly, all of these things have an impact on how much I want to get naked. I also started the mini pill in hopes to alleviate perimenopausal stuff I have going on (one of which was low sex drive) and it made it worse. Like, almost dead down there.
So, what does a middle aged woman do? I’m tired of everyone saying that it’s normal to have low sex drive as you get older. Of course, I don’t expect to feel like a teenager but to have some interest seems like a reasonable expectation.
Has anyone found anything that helps?