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Snow mom
Thanks all. It helps hearing reasons why people would go. DH has decided it’s too logistically difficult on such short notice. The guilt trip was really getting to him and making him feel pretty bad in a time when he already feels bad enough. It sounds like the final no at least shut that off. I know his grandmother wouldn’t want him to feel guilty about not being there—it just wasn’t who she was as a person.
The fact he already made his trip to see his grandmother before she died is more important to me, than the actual funeral. Especially if there’s bad feelings among other members who will be present, imo it isn’t really the time to fix or do healing if he’s barely gonna be in town for full 24 hours as well.
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