I am struggling with DS1 (12). It seems like no matter what we do, he’s not getting any better, only worse. He has ADHD, DMDD (disruptive mood dysregulation disorder), and probably ODD, GAD, and maybe OCD. We’ve been seeing a psychiatrist since he was around 8 or so and a therapist for the past 3 years. Both are awesome. We’ve tried different types of drugs and nothing seems to help. He has major sleep issues (always has), he’s angry, irritable, and disrespectful…and of course messy and disorganized. Every day is a challenge, and I feel like a failure and like I’m always at my breaking point. (Thankfully I have two other kids who are not like this, so I know it’s not that I’m a crappy parent. DD is typical first born perfectionist, bright, and hardworking, and DS2 is sweet and calm…he is on the spectrum, but he’s incredibly smart and easy at home.) Ds1’s therapist is frustrated because he just doesn’t seem to want to make any changes in his life or work on things. His behavior is just so awful and too embarrassing to type out. He makes family vacations miserable. (Here are the positives: School is fine, both behavior and grades. He has nice friends. He is social, athletic, and creative.) Our home life is so chaotic and unpleasant because of him. We worry that he will end up on drugs or in prison or dead. I just don’t know how to help him. We’ve tried calling academic centers to try to find a new/second opinion psychiatrist without luck. We’ve done tons of research ourselves (DH is a physician).
I was just wondering if anyone has been through something like this with one of there kids. I’m struggling and I don’t know what do do. I just want a magic pill that will turn him into the sweet kid I know exists under all the anger and irritability.
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