Dh regularly buys foods that have tree nuts in them. Not just hidden, unexpected tree nuts in the ingredients. He will come home and say, “surprise! I passed your favorite bakery today and the pecan buns looked delicious so I bought you some!” Or how about, “ I brought you these hazelnut candies all the way from (fill in whatever foreign country he’s traveled to recently). I hope you like them!” Three out of the 6 people in our family are allergic to tree nuts with our twins both having had life-threatening reactions that he SHOULD remember. We have been allergic for 13 years. We have pretty much given hope of him ever remembering.
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.