No one in our 5 person household has gotten it. I’ve actually upgraded my “going into stores” mask to an N95. I work at a hospital, but changed my job to a M-F one so I take the train in, mask there. My husband masks at work (small town government, little interaction with public) when I tell him positivity numbers are going up. (I work in a procedural area so everyone has to test before coming in. Very helpful that I can’t ignore the facts.) I see random people come in with long haul Covid so I am concerned, but not freaking out about it. Like I think if all 5 of us got it there would be a 50/50 chance of someone getting long haul Covid. We go to restaurants, but we try to eat outdoors and don’t go when crowded. But I haven’t been a hermit. I’ve flown several times, will not take my mask off in airport or plane. I can go 5 hrs without eating or drinking. (We really overestimate how much water we need a lot if the times.) I suspect my 16 will mask at school, it will be his choice. My 19 yo still masks most of the time. He might do less at college, but at home they are worried about 84 yo grandma. (No wants to be the person that possibly kills her.)
My concern falls into two categories. (1) I don’t want to have it, not know, and give it to a medically vulnerable person at work or start an outbreak that leaves us short staffed. (2) I have combined sick:vacation time. 1-2 weeks out with Covid means 1-2 weeks less of vacation. That is worth masking in the supermarket. If anyone gives me grief I just tell them I’m a nurse and sometimes see baby’s with newly diagnosed cancer (not strictly true for last 3 months with new job, but it was before that.) If anyone says something after that they are either delusional, a jerk, or both. I completely realizing the fact I can get away with writing these people off is I am a white woman in a state with decent gun control. So very sympathetic to people who get grief and worse for mask wearing.
Also, side note. I always thought cruises would just be breeding grounds GI viruses before Covid. So I can safely say never going on one now for a whole bunch of reasons. In general I’ve become less and less enamored with our vacation destination obsession in this country. I see so much wrong with it from feeling one has to go, to the expense by many measures, by the damage it’s doing to places. I not nearly as absorbed as I used to be with planning my next one. Don’t get me wrong I still want to travel some, but there is an icky underbelly to the whole industrial vacation complex that has made me rethink my approach.