Originally Posted by
WatchingThemGrow
It just occurred to me that I should consider driving to get them b/c they won't leave and it looks like power isn't coming on anytime soon. They're in a condo building that's 8 stories tall and just under 20 years old. it's pitch black and they're 75-80ish. I begged them to get out.
How long can 80 year olds last without power when it's hot and they're stressed and their routine is disrupted. My stepfather walked downstairs "to get the paper" like he thought it would be there the next morning! Half their county is without power.
Im sorry, that’s hard. Even if you show up to get them out, there is no guarantee they will go with you. Ugh, I remember that with my own parents. My mother was totally the dig-your-heels-in type who would have said, “when it’s my time to go, it’s my time to go” and would have insisted staying (or insisted she didn’t need to see a doctor, or help with anything.). I hope I don’t pull that carp with my kids when I get older.
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.