De3 tried Focalin but it made him very emotional. He’d get mad and couldn’t get past it and became bitter, difficult and on a few occasions full of rage. It just wasn’t the best fit for him. But I know several kids who take it and love it. He takes Concerta now.
If you otherwise like and trust your doctor, I would give that dosage a try. If he’s starting your ds at a dosage that seems high, it may be because of his diagnostic testing or his size. Maybe your Ped feels your son’s saving you time from working up the dosage. It can be quite a long, slow process to give each dosage a try to find the right level. Or maybe that is the normal lowest dosage. I can’t remember what dosage we started with.
I wouldn’t worry too much about your Ds not sleeping. I’ve found that my ds3 actually falls asleep more easily when he’s had his medication later in the day so it’s still affecting him at bedtime. The meds make him more calm and focused so he’s able to relax and quiet his mind more easily. We’ve just increased his dosage and now he’s falling asleep studying with me at night! In the summers when we occasionally don’t give him his meds, he has a very hard tim calming down at the end of the day enough to fall asleep. He’s like a squirrel.
I hope you can find a dosage and ADHD medication that your ds loves without too many tries.
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