Originally Posted by
elbenn
I don't think you are really far behind on the boys side. The girls side recruits much earlier, but boys coaches are still looking at boys in their senior year because boys develop so much later and a late bloomer might blossom in their senior year and the coaches understand that.
Good to know! That makes sense.
I also feel that if it happens for him regarding cross country/track, it happens. Not that he is not working hard and not that I don't support him, but I am not going to stress about this part of things. He really is just getting times as he did not participate in high school at all due the pandemic until this past Spring..so, these are the first cross-country times he has. I want to have an idea of what those look like before proceeding. He's doing well, he really wants this,and I am excited for him...but I am not going to stress about this.
lucky single mom to 20 yr old dd and 17 yr old ds through 2 very different adoption routes