I just discovered this thread(not sure how I overlooked it before). I’m excited for your big trip! Is this the first time you have been back to France? Start working on your French now with some French music and movies (without subtitles). Good mental exercise to bring the language back!
Since you are planning to visit a lot of places and it sounds like it’s just you and your Dh, I wanted to recommend traveling carryon. If you can pair down your belongings to what will fit in a carry-on suitcase, traveling will be so much easier. Not just for airplane travel but for transporting your luggage in trains, taxis, rental cars, dragging it into elevators, finding room in tiny European hotel rooms, etc. On European domestic flights you may still have to check it, but it’s still much easier overall.
I do have some recommendations for clothes to wear to make like easier too. This all depends on what activities you plan to do. But if you are mainly sight-seeing, then this should be easy. I’d pack using packing cubes and plan out exactly what you are going to wear and when. Bring polyester clothes which don’t wrinkle easily and can be washed and hung to dry overnight so you can wear them more than once on the same trip. I used a 2-gallon ziploc bag system for washing- one to soap up and wash clothes in, one to rinse. Bring one of those detergent sheets and use a little bit to soap up clothes. Tiny amounts of detergent is all that’s needed. Try out some shampoo, conditioner, lotion bars to lower your number of liquids in your carryons. Hotels will have shampoo and conditioner anyway or you can buy it once you get to Europe if you need it. I really like the Lush toothtabs to eliminate toothpaste as a carry-on liquid. My boys and Dh lived in the Columbia zip-off let hiking pants. They wore them daily. They were nice for cool mornings and could partially unzip for airflow or completely unzip for shorts. Easy and fast to sink-wash too. I lived in the Athleta Brooklyn pants. The fabric washes and dries easily and quickly, they are super comfortable and look dressy, imo. We also loved the packable Lands End down coats and rain jackets. They pack into their own pocket and reduce bulk. Waterproof your shoes before you go (in case you get rained on). Bring sandals that you can walk in, wear at the beach but can dress up for dinners. Fitflops are my go-to because I have flat feet.
I can provide links if you need me later to but I gotta get ready for church now.
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