Ultimately I'd just like to see DS1 have even a slight passion for something career path related. He has good grades, decent test scores, and good extracurriculars. On paper, he's college bound. But he has no idea what he wants to do or where he wants to study. We definitely try to expose him to jobs and give ideas but I'm not sure how much direction we are giving.
In theory, I'd love to say I'd support any path. I do support schooling for the sake of education and believe no education is a waste. But the reality is that one must pay for housing, food, transportation etc. Being financially stable is much less stressful in the end. We plan to pay for undergrad but DH and I expect our kids to be mostly financially independent after graduation/for graduate school. We definitely discuss the ROI of an education and what it means longer term. So my kids are free to choose their path (and major) but with as much understanding as a 17-18 yo can have.
I've made a strong effort lately to show my kids what I'm paying for everyday items - bills, groceries, vet visit, co-pays, vacations, home repairs - so they have a slight understanding. Definitely some surprises when they learn a bag of dogfood is $75 or it costs $40 for the urgent care with insurance. Maybe it impacts their decisions, maybe not but I gave the info.
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