
Originally Posted by
jenmcadams
One of the things someone recommended to me was to do tours early in HS of local schools of different sizes (e.g. a small liberal arts college, a mid-sized university and a large state school) - we did this and it help my DD (and DS) narrow in on what size school was most appealing.
We did this too and my kids found it helpful. We started touring for ds1 his junior year and brought ds2 with us. DS2 was a freshman then. Restrictions on campuses were still up in many places due to COVID, but we took outdoor campus tours and saw some dorms. DS2 started to talk about what he liked and didn’t like about some of the campuses along with ds1. He’s a senior now and we’ve discussed his favorites and how his viewpoint has changed since then. Narrowing down his list was much easier for him than ds1 because he had had time to think about what he saw as a freshman.
We dragged our freshman twins along when ds2 took his junior tours last year. Ds3 said he felt he knew already where he wanted to go. We’ve continued to discuss whether that still is the best place for him and what he’d like to find. It’s going to be hard helping twins prep for college both at the same time. If we can get some stuff down earlier, so much the better.
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