UPDATE in OP: Splitting costs on a trip
I’m just curious to know what the fair thing is to do in this instance. We are all equally well off, but my friend is definitely more cost-conscious. We are going on a trip together, DH and me plus my friend. I don’t think her DH can join us, but we’re not sure yet. If her DH doesn’t join us, how should we split the Airbnb and car rental? Should she pay 1/3? I’m totally OK with this and it seems fair, but I’m just curious to know what you all think.
btw this is my idea but I haven’t mentioned it yet.
UPDATE: So now her husband is coming so it's a moot point. I had decided to just be direct and ask her what she thought was fair! She is a very direct person so I thought she would appreciate that, but it was helpful to read a wide range of views. I was thinking I could suggest that dh and I pay for the groceries and gas, or something like that.
I am a huge splitwise user. I used it this last weekend and noticed we are now very limited - you can use a certain number of entries until it requires you to sign up for the Pro version. I got it because I do a lot of similar trips with friends and I'm usually the travel agent and accountant lol I love the features to split bills accurately. Also, my friends are on splitwise and it would be a pain to get them to move to another app.
Last edited by Globetrotter; 02-28-2024 at 08:03 PM.
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