Based on some recommendations on here, I ordered and read Gary Taubes book last year called "Why We Get Fat And What To Do About It" http://www.amazon.com/Why-We-Get-Fat...1821818&sr=8-1
I read it last year, and I have read it cover to cover probably four times during the year. I also read snippets of it. But I never tried to do what he was advocating. Instead I did WW for almost a year, and was vigilent to cardio every day. I am almost 43, with one 5 year old, and WOTH.
Finally after Christmas this year, something in me clicked and I realized that I really needed to do something to get off the 20 lbs that I had gained since I got married 7 years ago. I don't think all of this was "baby weight" but moreso just weight gain that happens when life gets busy and we age, though I was really good at working out. I had read all about paleo and primal eating too, but the science in Gary Taubes book really inspired me. With WW, I kept bouncing down 4 lbs and then bouncing back up repeatedly. And working out just wasn't resulting in the weight loss that I really felt like I deserved. I knew that only losing 15 lbs is the hardest to lose, everyone says, but still... I felt like I deserved to get back to my healthier weight.
For those needing inspiration, I really really recommend Gary Taubes book. I have lost 11 lbs and have never felt more satisfied on a way of eating, ever. I eat plenty of fat and protein, but really limit carbs. My sugar cravings took TWO MONTHS to go away... honestly. But the weight keeps coming off. I have given up my "chronic cardio" hour long sessions for walks with my family at night, or enjoying a walk during lunchtime. And my body is totally different. I have no doubt that I will lose another 9 lbs by May or so. It really is amazing.
I can't get my husband to accept that calories in/calories out does not make sense... or that insulin really is the enemy here (and thus carbs that trigger insulin). I wish he would as he also needs to lose 20-30 lbs. But I am just trying to lead by example and hopefully by this summer, he will perhaps want to give it a go. But for all those frustrated here, I just want to suggest that book. I got it from Brittone's recommendation, I think, and I am so very grateful for that!!!