Originally Posted by
Kestrel
My sister and her husband have welcomed a teen dad (yes, dad!) and his infant as foster kids. Our extended family is all thrilled! I'm afraid it's kind of overwhelming for them. We're having a baby shower next weekend to help with real needs, as all they have now is a bassinet and a few pieces of clothes. They lucked out and have a great social worker who has set up their health insurance and the dad's transfer to his new high school. He's in the end of his Jr year.
Any recommendations of either things to do or stuff to welcome them in? They'll be with us at least 18 months.
Oh my gosh how awesome is that??? First that your sisters’ family is welcoming a foster teen and that he’s raising his son!! That is so impressive! What a beautiful example to other boys and men!!
Ok, how to help him. He’s going to need child care and baby gear that can make his life easier. I’d wait to see what the baby shower provides and fill in from there. Maybe offer a book of free babysitting coupons so he can still get out with friends and have trustworthy childcare during his 18 months.
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