Do you donate/sell some baby gear even if you're not sure you're done?
We're trying to declutter our pathetically crammed (finished, walkout, useless at the moment due to too much stuff) basement and I'm looking at all these massive pieces of baby gear trying to come to terms with the idea of not keeping it all for a potential 3rd child. We aren't sure we're done having kids, but if we do have another it won't be for at least another year. And having had primary and secondary infertility, the likelihood is really, really small anyway.
I'd keep the cradle, crib, pack & play, mac triumph, infant-to-toddler rocker and the travel booster. Some or all of these would be useful to visiting babies or future grandchildren and/or don't take up a lot of space. But then things like the baby swing, the high chair, the bouncy seat, the infant tub, the joovy stroller and the step & play piano exersaucer-type-thingy seem excessive to keep when we're not sure we'll ever have another child.
In my head I know I can replace all of these things if we are blessed with another child. But if I'm honest with myself, the biggest reason I'm balking at getting rid of these things is because a future DC3 would not have his/her "firsts" pictures taken in the same equipment - first bath, first meals, etc. That's really, really stupid, right? Someone tell me to go find someone who could use this stuff now and that there will be better things out there if I ever need it again...please?
Sarah
Mommy to:
Carolyn, 10/04
Anna, 7/08
Matthew, 8/13