Was there a phone in your room? I can't understand why someone would bang on the door when they could call. I don't blame you for not opening it.
This is what we were always told before our annual performance tours in high school, but especially if we were traveling overseas, and we "only" went to England!
Our director would also "test" that we'd absorbed the information by going 'round to our rooms at night, covering the peep-holes, and banging on the door. If we opened the door, not only would we have 6' of former baseball player barging into our room, but we'd also get a lecture.
I was never subject to this performance, for which I was thankful. I strongly suspect that Mr. Dalton figured I was level-headed and "responsible" enough not to be susceptible to a midnight door-knock.
Anyway, if someone knocked on my hotel room door at 9:30pm, I would have flashbacks. And I would DEFINITELY not open the door!
==========================================
Liz
DD (3/2010)
"Make mistakes! Get messy!" - Miss Frizzle
I think Niccig has some great tips regarding travelling in Asia. I spent quite a while in southern india and definitely dressed as conservatively as possible when out alone. I think you did the right thing with both situations.
Trust your instinct, if you think something seems off, then do whatever you have to in order to protect yourself.
From having lived abroad:
First and foremost, you need to dress way more conservatively than you would elsewhere. So no tank tops, no figure hugging/clingy things, shoulders/legs etc covered
Two, be assertive. Sometimes you almost have to be angry. The hotel staff knows not to bang on your door, that situation would set off alarm bells. I would have gone to the front desk the next AM, compalined to the general manager of the hotel and threatened to call the police
Three, you need to be very businesslike with the hotel staff, I would avoid smiling/laughing/drinking alcohol etc in front of them.
I know it sounds horrible to say this, but you really have to be careful, I've lived in China for 2 years and used to travel all over and that part of the world in particular, as a woman traveling alone, you have to be very, very careful. I never faced these same issues in China or Malaysia or Singapore
'...everything can be taken from a man but one thing, the Last of the Human Freedoms, the ability to choose one's behavior in any set of circumstances, the Freedom to Choose One's Own Way.' -Viktor Frankle
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Chart