I wouldn’t say or do anything to the host mom. Just decline future play dates at her house.
The not calling me would bug me. Especially if it’s a long time. Ie more than 3-4 hours. Anything shorter, I can see why she didn’t call since it’s such a short time play date and host mom figured you were coming back at the prearranged time.
DS1 is in 2nd grade, and I never hover around in their immediate area. I just leave them be, and do my own thing. But I wouldn’t have hung upstairs for most part with my bedroom door closed though, I can’t relax reading anyway whenever I’ve a bunch of kids in my house! I’m more likely to be in the kitchen, office, doing stuff around the house or outside when weather is nice on my deck.
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