Hi all...new to this board but frequently post on others. I am a SAHM but my husband and I make sacrafices for me to be able to stay home with our kids. I worked up until I had my first child.
I wonder if I have "FREE BABYSITTER" written on my forehead sometimes. I took my dd to the school yesterday to find out who her 4th grader teacher would be and met a lady who lives on my street. This lady, I might mention, has never waved at me or my husband when we pass on the street. After 5 minutes of small talk, I begin to load my 3 kids in the truck and she comes back up to me said, "So, if you don't work, then you can probably watch my son for me. I have to work and my mom sometimes forgets to pick him up" Uh, NO! This happens to me every year and sometimes I get suckered into doing it when the parents say "Just this one time" I really don't mind helping people out in a bind but I don't like being taken advantage of.
I feel like sometimes people think just because I stay at home that I have nothing better to do than to sit around and watch their kids. I have tons of things to do. So much that I feel I can never get anything done. I never put my kids off on other people and always make arrangements prior to doing anything.
Is it just me?????????????
Frustrated in California,
Priscilla