If someone is having a baby shower at a restaurant instead of at her home, who pays the tab? The host, or does everyone kick in for her own meal? (Of course the mom-to-be would not pay either way.)
Thanks for your input.
ETA:
My friend and I are hosting a baby shower for another friend, who suggested that we could have it at a tea room or restaurant b/c it's ending up to be a fairly small group. She suggested it as an "out" for us if we didn't want to go through the "hassle" of hosting a shower. (We are happy to do it and don't think it's a hassle.) The co-host and I weren't postiive on etiquette, but figured we'd be the ones to pay for all the guests. (Although if I went to a shower at a restaurant, which I never have, I think I'd figure I might have to pay so I'd bring money just in case.) Anyhoo, thanks for your help.