Don't know if the Honda Pilot is big enough but I have heard nothing but raves about this SUV. I have also heard alot of good about Toyota Sequoia too. The only problem with the Sequoia is it is a gas guzzler! Most SUVs are though. Maybe a 4Runner would fit the bill?? They are very nice! A little smaller than a Sequoia, but still lots of room. With regular maintenence both the Pilot and the Sequoia are known to last! I know someone with a Sequoia and she loves everything about it except the amount of gas it uses. I also know someone with a Pilot and she loves it also, even the gas doesn't bother her.