I posted a few days ago about how DS was on antibiotics last week and now is having tummy troubles. He is pooping now, so thats good but everything is not back to "normal". We are doing a chewable pro-biotic and I did give him a tiny amount of those chocolate ex-lax squares. He's pooped the past 2 mornings on the potty, but this morning was more like diarrhea. I will stop the ex-lax now and just let him try to get better by eating fruits/veggies I think.
But at the same time that this tummy/antibiotic thing happened, he is suddenly so sad about school. He wakes up crying about not wanting to go and crying that he will miss me so much and I have no idea how much he will miss me. He says he cant survive the 2 more days until February vacation. He will then switch gears and talk about how he doesnt want to poop at school. then it will change into the bus ride home being too long, and can I please just pick him up at school? Can he be an early pick-up, etc...? I dont want to go down that road because he was 100% fine with riding the bus and going to school before last week. DD is at the same school and on the bus with him and she says no one is bothering him. He's not being picked on or anything like that.
He's always been sensative and a momma's boy. But he was also a huge jokester and pretty happy. But this is throwing me for a loop. Could it all just be related to his upset tummy? Its been 6 days since he had antibiotics. I'm hoping that once his tummy issues resolve and he is back to "normal" he will stop crying for me ALL.THE.TIME. He is waking up at 5am and immediately starts whining and crying about how he doesnt want to go to school and how he will miss me so much.
I even asked him if someone was bothering him at school and he said his teacher was. He said he was trying to cuddle his stuffed animal (which I put into his backpack to make him feel better) and he said she screamed at him "are you going to come back to meeting Liam?"). His teacher is very mellow and really nice. She is about 26 and so calm. I cant imagine her ever raising her voice. So I think he is just overly sensitive and I dont believe she really screamed at him. I can see her being firm though and matter-of-fact. But she is very soft-spoken.
Anyways, what gives? Do you think this little phase will pass once his stomach is back to normal? DD says he isn't sad the whole day at school. She seems him at lunch and recess (I think they sit together with their own friends at lunch). There has been 2 days in the past 8 days that either the school nurse called me because he was there and not feeling well, or because the teacher emailed me to tell me he had a "rough day". The teacher said he gets more upset and inconsolable if an adult tries to console him. They have an assistant teacher in their Kindergarten room full-time and she is an older lady, like 65ish or so and I guess she couldnt help but try to console him and it ended up making him cry more. So now the teacher is trying to let him take a little break, hug his stuffed animal and have a sip of water before he returns to his table to "work". She said that seems to work better for him.
I just want him to have fun and not be crying and missing me so much that he's miserable. I havent been giving in too much about picking him up at school.
Sorry this is so long...